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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Officer Dibble on Tue Apr 17, 2018 12:48 pm

Westcliffspur

Incredible post, sounds like you have some support in place to assist you through this period.

If you aren't aware, or there are other people that have experienced anything similar then you do have the following charities as a contact for support and advice.

http://thesurvivorstrust.org/national-helplines/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-abu ... ent-abuse/" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Good luck with everything, I hope you find closure in the near future.


Has anyone had any contact with ELH?
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Cockneyboy311 on Tue Apr 17, 2018 2:17 pm

Westcliff,

Wow, just wow. Well done. I can't even begin to imagine how hard that was for you. Let's hope the bastards involved get a very long time in jail and you can get some sort of inner peace and closure.
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby rare as rockinghorse shat on Tue Apr 17, 2018 3:43 pm

Officer Dibble wrote:Has anyone had any contact with ELH?


He has unfortunately not logged on since his last post in this thread, on January 11th
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Samba on Tue Apr 17, 2018 5:05 pm

Great to hear from you, Westcliff.
Been a tough time for you but hopefully, better times to come for you & your family.
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby OFT on Wed Apr 18, 2018 8:41 am

Just catching up again with this wonderful thread.

Westcliff.

A remarkable post, I cannot begin to imagine what this process is like for you. All the very best to you and yours.
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby S-H on Wed Apr 18, 2018 8:46 am

rare as rockinghorse shat wrote:
He has unfortunately not logged on since his last post in this thread, on January 11th


That's worrying, hope he's ok.

If you're reading Christopher, just check in and let us know how you are doing, mate.
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby last.caress on Wed Apr 18, 2018 10:06 am

Genuinely awe-inspiring stuff Westcliffspur. It's a term bandied about way too often these days - "That chicken burger was awesome", "That TV show was awesome" - but you're the real deal. No hyperbole.
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby ageing hammer on Wed Apr 18, 2018 10:49 am

^^^^^^
This, my heart goes out to you Westcliffspur, what you have suffered no one should ever have to go through.
The world can be such a horrible and cruel place but you found a safe place and trust on here. This site and particularly this thread shows that there are decent people, amazing people on here who really really care.
I hope that justice is served and these unimaginable b@stads get long sentences.

You are an incredibly brave man to do what you are doing and I hope you can get through this. :)
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby westham,eggyandchips on Thu Apr 19, 2018 7:56 am

Westcliff,

Best of luck getting justice for the scum that abused you. They deserve everything thats coming their way. Your a hero in my eyes. :thup:
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Clacton-ammer on Thu Apr 19, 2018 8:28 am

last.caress wrote:Genuinely awe-inspiring stuff Westcliffspur. It's a term bandied about way too often these days - "That chicken burger was awesome", "That TV show was awesome" - but you're the real deal. No hyperbole.


Totally agree. Keep fighting the good fight WS, you are a top top man :thup:
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Westcliffspur on Thu Apr 19, 2018 3:32 pm

Once again, many thanks to the goid people of KUMB. You reached out to a stranger and your comments have meant so much. It just shows there are many decent people out there and KUMB has more than its fair share. Most of us get rubbish thrown at us sometime in our lives. I have dipped into this whole thread at times and the support for other people has been top notch. Thank you.
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Slacking student on Fri Apr 20, 2018 7:32 pm

I know it's nothing on Westcliffs post but got the results back from the clinic and received the all clear. So relived right now I can't properly express in words. Have stopped the affair and just concentrating on females who don't have a husband (or who are a massive psycho/my boss)

Lesson learnt
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby S-H on Fri Apr 20, 2018 7:45 pm

Nice one, mate.

:thup:
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Samba on Fri Apr 20, 2018 8:53 pm

That's very good news, SS.
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Tenbury on Sat Apr 21, 2018 10:21 am

[quote="Slacking student"

Lesson learnt[/quote]

:thup: good stuff. Move on and don't beat yourself up over it
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Mega Ron on Sat Apr 21, 2018 11:12 am

If he is moving on from this women then I assume he's moving back to beating himself a fair amount more.
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Tenbury on Sat Apr 21, 2018 1:46 pm

Quite.
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Slacking student on Sat Apr 21, 2018 4:53 pm

Mega Ron wrote:If he is moving on from this women then I assume he's moving back to beating himself a fair amount more.


Guilty 8-)
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby ageing hammer on Sat Apr 21, 2018 7:47 pm

SS good man :thup:
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Re: A thread to discuss depression and other mental issues...

Postby Chinners92 on Sun Apr 22, 2018 12:04 pm

This thread is heartbreaking but also great to see people talking about these issues.

I recently became an ambassador for these guys: https://www.great-men.org

One of the aims is to get young males to be more okay with opening up about their feelings at a young age and if you think it might be for you, I'd really recommend getting involved.
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